How To Love Your Spouse More Deeply
Feb 02, 2023Everybody desires a love story to come true in their own life. Often, people hope to follow the movie script where boy meets girl, they become soulmates, and live happily ever after. However, true, deeper love isn't found; it's forged. Soulmates are created in seemingly insignificant, ordinary moments at home. It's about going deeper into the little things, into yourself, your partner, and the vulnerable spaces between you both. To create deeper love, bring light to the unexplored issues of identity and insecurity, exploring your real selves and finding complete acceptance.
Deepen Your Character
- Develop the character needed for deeper love.
- Do things for your partner that challenge you, maintaining consistency with your values.
- Walk your talk, make and keep promises, be vulnerable, and learn to do hard things together.
Face the Past Fears That Fuel Today’s Fights
- Identify and let go of fears embedded in your heart.
- Understand that past emotional pain influences present conflicts.
- Recognize patterns, identify your healthy adult self, and respond in healthier ways.
Turn Toward the Storms Together
- To deepen love, face challenges together.
- Couples who navigate tough times often build the deepest connections.
- Healthy couples embrace conflict as an opportunity for growth.
When Love Runs Dry... Deepen Your Roots
- Actively learn and grow together in areas causing challenges.
- Strengthen your relationship through regular rituals, couple time, and shared activities.
- Face trials together, learning from past experiences and applying those lessons to grow deeper love.
Replace Shallow Service with a Deeper Sincere Sacrifice
- Grow deeper love by sincerely sacrificing for your partner daily.
- Differentiate between shallow service and sincere sacrifice.
- Choose actions that align with the "best, healthiest thing for the relationship," even if challenging.
Deepening your love requires intentional effort, commitment to personal growth, and facing challenges together. It's a journey of continuous exploration and understanding, fostering a connection that stands the test of time.
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