Five Principles to Help You Survive Life’s Unforeseen Shipwrecks

Whether intentional, accidental, due to bad luck, karma, or randomness, every human being will experience times when it seems like their ship of dreams, hopes, and aspirations hits an unforeseen iceberg and sinks. These moments could be triggered by events such as divorce, job loss, the unexpected passing of a loved one, leaving home for the first time, or the realization that life isn't unfolding as planned.

Accept Your New Reality and Own Your Choices

Accept the current situation and find effective ways to respond. Acknowledge that improving requires acceptance. Direct your energy toward creating the life you want today, instead of fighting the past. Take ownership by recognizing your agency and acting on what you can control.

Find Motivation by Connecting to What Matters Most

Reconnect to your beliefs, people, and principles that matter most to you. Use these connections to motivate your present choices. Reconcile what matters most with your current situation. Establish a motivating purpose based on your core values, providing direction and a reason to move forward.

Stay Present, Positive, and Connected

Actively live in the present instead of dwelling on the past or an uncertain future. Stay focused on the positive aspects of your life by actively looking for them. Seek connection with supportive and uplifting individuals aligned with what matters most to you. Connect to your highest self by serving others and paying it forward.

Learn What Works and Adjust Accordingly

Intentionally learn and adjust your life to healthier ways of living. Ensure your learning is intentional and focused on the healthiest lessons of life. Make learning a part of your daily life and continuously assess what to continue, stop, or start doing.

Aggressively Act on Your Highest Virtues

Responding to life's challenges is a test of character. Act on your highest goals, aspirations, and principles every morning. Envision a principled, positive life, find one thing to do each day to make that vision a reality, and take action. Acting on your highest virtues attracts like-minded individuals, creating a path off the deserted island.