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The One Thing That Makes You One

Research shows that human beings really can only meaningfully focus on one thing at time. But instead we tend to get lost focusing on two or three things in our marriages and about 15 things in our lives. So many times my clients feel so alone in their marriages and so deeply want to feel [...]

By | October 10th, 2016|Love|Comments Off on The One Thing That Makes You One

Lifting One Another – Go Gossip Free

In an address at the Vatican recently, Pope Francis spoke out strongly against what he called the “terrorism of gossip”. The Pope compared talking negatively about others to “tossing a gossip bomb and walking away.” He stated that gossiping distances communities and does not bring us together. So despite the latest research that shows that [...]

By | October 3rd, 2016|Lead, Love|Comments Off on Lifting One Another – Go Gossip Free

Why Some Arguments Are “Normal” In Marriage

Disagreements in our relationships are very common, and yet there are some arguments it seems like almost all couples are having. Here are 4 fights that you and your spouse may have and some of the research behind why we might be so offended when they happen. “I Just Want It All To be “Fair” [...]

By | September 26th, 2016|Live, Love|Comments Off on Why Some Arguments Are “Normal” In Marriage

Four Lesson’s Learned From the Men In My Life

Bart Summerhays- (Youth Leader) “To Believe In Myself!” The Lesson- Bart taught me to believe in myself. He always found time to be with me and around me and reflected the best of who I was back on to me. He was a light, not a critic. When it comes to things I wasn’t not [...]

By | June 13th, 2016|Live|Comments Off on Four Lesson’s Learned From the Men In My Life

Love’s Difficult Lessons From a Relationship Coach

Happiness Isn’t About “Who” or “If” You’re Married • Happiness isn’t about whom you married, it’s about who you are, and who you’re becoming. • All of the singles are fighting to get married and all of the married are fighting to be single. • Happiness is more about the choices you make in responding [...]

By | May 31st, 2016|Love|Comments Off on Love’s Difficult Lessons From a Relationship Coach

Creating “Oneness” In Your Marriage

The goal of most people when marrying is to hopefully create a relationship that is unified and cooperative in such a way that we are almost welded or combined into one entity. For many this is why religion is such an important undertaking, as they long to be one with a loving higher power. The [...]

By | May 23rd, 2016|Love|Comments Off on Creating “Oneness” In Your Marriage

Fixing Your Toughest Relationship Problems

Relationships are hard but they don’t have to be as hard as most of us make them. In marriage there really are two kinds of problems: those we can’t fix (like the histories we brought to the relationship, our gene pool or chronic health conditions we suffer with), and those we can fix (like everything [...]

By | May 16th, 2016|Love|Comments Off on Fixing Your Toughest Relationship Problems

Communicating With The People Who Don’t Emote

To learn about Matt's Coaching Program click here. Communication is a process of “sending, receiving and resending” information from one person to another. Although effective communication is a pretty difficult task in its own right, it can become even more difficult when the person you’re talking to doesn’t emote or respond with emotional cues or [...]

By | May 9th, 2016|Lead, Love|Comments Off on Communicating With The People Who Don’t Emote

Spirituality & Mind Body Institute

Click Here to Listen! Dr. Lisa Miller is a Professor of Psychology and Education, Director of Clinical Psychology, and Director of the Spirituality & Mind Body Institute at Teachers College Columbia University. So much of our early education focuses on cognitive skills. We learn cursive and spelling, math and science. But teaching principles that the heart [...]

By | May 2nd, 2016|Lead, Live, Love|Comments Off on Spirituality & Mind Body Institute